ღ Feino...: August 2012

Wednesday, August 29, 2012

想通 (9)

有时候活得笨一点才会开心

Some people make your life a little better by walking into it

While other people will make your life a lot better by walking out of it

Pleasing everybody is never a responsibility

If they like you for who you are ...good!

If not, it's their problem not yours

当你意识到花了很长的时间等待

要懂得改变继续等下去的念头

学会在搞错的关键时刻马上终止

就能将损失减到最少

想通 (8)

决口不提爱，并非不爱，而是深爱

总有一个人一直住在心底却消失在生活

回忆，让一个人不能忘记过去

心中不敢说的话才是最想说的话

不太介意这世界多残酷

只愿在感情里也别那么残酷

爱过，所以试着牢记得他曾经的好

放在心中慢慢回味

直觉，是天下不至不可信的东西
可是，人与人相处只能善用直觉
依靠那最靠不得的直觉

想通 (7)

one of the most difficult task in life is removing someone from your life

Some deal with the regretful past forever ...

Some never forget the flamboyant past ...

And some live through the painful memories in the past

they want to forget ...

The past can only hold us back

and scare us to make a difference ...

To those who have the same experiance, same feeling ...

The present is more important than our past ...

It's okay to forget about what happened in the past ...

and live a good life now ...

If you hold on to your past ...

You can miss out in the present ...

Please forget about the painful memories in the past

and get on with your life ...

想通 (6)

只是有时候不想说话

想一个人独处

无关情绪

人生在世

终避免不了伤害人或是被伤害

你虽伤了我

我也伤了别人

算是一报还一报吧？

厌倦了总是过着讨好别人的生活

要是有一天当我决定不再这样生活了

原谅我。。

突然好想你

想念被你疼的感觉

想通 (5)

如果不喜欢，那就去改变

如果改变不了，那就去适应

如果做不到适应，那就只好回避

如果连回避也做不到，那只有放手

但一般的情况是，能干的人会选择改变

懒惰的人会选择适应

懦弱的人选择回避

勇敢的人选择放手

想通 (4)

真真的爱是接受，不是忍受

年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱

但是随着年龄的增长
终于领悟到爱一个人
就算用一辈子的时间还是会嫌不够的
从慢慢地去认识，相处，了解等等

分手了要忘掉，尤其是曾经深爱的人
唯有时间会改变一切
不用强迫自己去忘
忘不掉时，就想一想，哭一哭，也没什么
不要幻想，去删掉他的联系方式
丢掉那些所谓的“ 爱的见证 ”
慢慢来，不知不觉地振作起来了

想通 (3)

I will not let anything taken away from me

我总以为安静地做好自己的事就不会招惹不必要的麻烦。。

可是很多时候，你不去招惹别人，别人也会欺负到你头上。。

你以为忍让就能让事情过去，可是别人就会以为你好欺负

要时时记住，不必，不要，不用当一个烂好人！

当你觉得受到委屈的时候要勇敢说 “ NO ”

别让自己懦弱，也别一味地退让

如果不坚强，软弱给谁看！

Tuesday, August 28, 2012

You cannot allow that inner voice to keep bullying you

You will only begin to heal when you let go of past hurts..

Forgive those who have wronged you
and learned to forgive yourself for your mistake

Life is like a show

Only those who enjoys it win

想通 (1)

真的很害怕用了心之后得到的是背叛

People always think that the most painful thing
is losing the one you love

But the truth is,
losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much and forgetting that you are speacial too, is equally painful

Dying isn't punishment.

Living in pain is punishment.

some wounds won't seem to heal

there's just too much that even time cannot erase