Secrets

There are valid reasons why some people choose NOT TO share certain thing

Sometimes, I keep secrets for a good reason
I dun tell so as to avoid upsetting certain people or to prevent anger and frustration to myself or others

Being secretive can also mean I'm not ready to share a certain part of my life with someone as is often the case when I meet new people and dun wish to reveal too much of myself

But some people feel there should be no secrets for any friendship to form
When I'm ready to let someone into my life
Secrets will be the anchor of our friendship because such sharing shows a high level of trust between me and that persan
It also involves respect


A true relationship is when you can tell each other anything and everything
NO secrets
NO lies


However, if I choose to keep a secret from someone
It could be because I have a negative perception of him/her
Maybe he/she is a gossip
Maybe he/she is manipulative or judge mental